There is a saying, "Arguement is the worst form of communication". Rightly so, no one ever wins an arguement so why involve yourself in it. Arguing with your girl about anything will only make you look insecure or defensive. Its easier to be mysterious, why do you want to reveal your point of view apart from proving that you are right. Its an ego's need to always try to defend one's opinion. You dont need to do it. Defending your opinion might win you an arguement but it will lose you a lot of attraction. Remember the goal, you want the girl find you irresistably attractive. During conversations there would come a point when she tends to disagree with your opinion of things. Dont try to defend your opinion. Remember the fact that truth needs no defence so if you believe in your opinion then you dont need to defend it. Relax and let her give her opinion, then with a casual "alright" just change topics. Let her know you are not the kinda guy who will be dragged into arguements. That will increase her respect for you tremendously. Its difficult to find people who are conscious enough not to enter into arguements. She will know you are one of them and so you will be a rare a catch for her.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
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