How To Touch A Girl

During the intial part of the relationship, while you are still flirting with the girl, its important to start touching. Not only does it help you feel good, but if done right it can arouse a lot of attraction her to the extent of charging her with sexual desire. Its important to understand that going overboard with touching during this phase of the relationship can be detrimental. Remember the thumb rule "less is more". Be subtle and be patient, there are rich dividends to be reaped later. Now is the time for the "passing touch". Girls are intensely aware of the skin to skin feel and they love to be touched. Guys on the other hand love touching, its usual for guys to feel attracted to the soft areas on the girl's body (they are plenty at that, not just the two areas you are thinking about). Whenever a guy sees a pretty girl its common for him to imagine her naked, most of the time he would think about how it would feel to touch her, especially her breasts and butt. This initiates a craving inside for him to have sex with that girl. This entire act of imagination is so unconscious that many guys, who are not very comfortable with their sexuality, actually feel embarassed about thinking that way, especially if they are married or committed. You need to remember that your mind is wired for sex, it is a very biological thing and hence is unconsciously triggered. Its natural and of course and its fun. This need or craving can interfere and lead to disasterous consequences if you lose self control, you risk coming across as a needy weirdo. Girls love sex as much as guys do, even more, but the approach has to be right else it spoils everything.