Seduction experts are aware of this secret. The less you talk the more you convey about yourself. Remember that your body language is the main attraction factor. Your tone should display a sense of relaxation. There should be no flurry of words, just a relaxed slow delivery. Keep the sentences short so that you dont fluster while talking. Remember to breath while talking, pause while you breath. The act of pausing while you talk generates a lot of attraction, it shows that you are completely at ease. Girls immediately tend to get close to a guy who is so relaxed because there is something intensely protective and secure about such a guy. And remember not to ever get flowery with adjectives, keep it simple. Saying something like "you are looking gorgeously stunning in that green dress you are wearing" is too flowery and its a turn off, instead just say something like "you look good in green". Most seduction manuals go really wrong in this aspect, they ask a guy to be cocky and sarcastic while talking but in real life its a turn off for any normal girl. No girl likes being taken a dig at (during the initial converstations), girls love a guy who talks in a calm and mature tone. Dont get sarcastic and dont try to act funny, it shows that you are a joker nothing else and she will lose her respect for you immediately. For a girl, attraction and respect go hand in hand, she will feel no attraction for a guy she can't respect.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
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