If you are new to the game its natural to feel very conscious while touching the girl. She might even sense that and feel a "wierdo" alarm going up in her head. Its important to do this in a subtle manner. Unconscious touching is always ok, remember that. So get started with pulling off "unconscious touching" while being very conscious. I will tell you how. Dont be intimated at the prospect of touching her, no matter how much in awe you are of her. Thats a mistake to start with though, dont be in awe of her, just think of her as another girl. Know that there are plenty to choose from if this does not work out. Keep it cool and keep it relaxed. Be subtle and everything will look natural. Here are a few touching tips, all these touches should be a "passing touch" (not more than a second)
Touch her shoulder from behind whenever you approach her
Touch her clothing while remarking on how nice the fabric feels, say something like "nice dress" and touch it. The upper arm would be the best place for this act
Ask her for a high five in a casual manner. This works wonders, because now she will have to touch you consciously.It should be a bland "give me five", no flowery expressions allowed on your part else you might end up in the "friends zone" with her.
If you have big hands you can try this ruse. Tell her how small her hands look, ask her to place it on your hand to compare the sizes. Say something like "you got small hands, just see how small they are keep it on my hand". Any girl would follow up on it. Once she places her hand on yours, just laugh and leave it at that. Dont prolong the touch for more than two seconds. If done right this is highly sexual.
While the crossing road or in a crowded mall, you can extend your arm for her to hold. It should look like a very unconscious gesture on your part, it should show that as a guy you are worried about her safety. If she holds your arm or hand, well you have it made my brother. If she doesnt there is no sweat because you can always pretend that it was unconscious on your part and go about it casually. Dont ever look sheepish if your attempt fails, always keep a straight face as if you are not aware of what happened. You get the lay of it right?
You can even dare to touch her waist, the area slightly above her butt, on the pertext on guiding her through a crowded mall or a pub. It works as long as you do it very subtely. She can feel it ofcourse, dont apply any pressure, just a feather touch.
The whisper technique is much abused, but it looks better on girls than on guys. So if you want you can try it but be cautious it might get you in an awkward position if done wrong. The best tip while doing this is to avoid getting too close to her ear, just lean towards her shoulder and whisper something pretty bland like "this class sucks".
The reading her palm technique is very common and known to most girls. Almost every guy on the block has tried it. So if you want to stand apart dont try it. Of course its your wish, if you are genuinely good at reading palms you can give it a try. Dont blame me if she gives you a wry "yeah i know this trick" look.
Given a situation just use your ingenuity to come up with excuses to touch her. While touching, less is more remember that though. Each touch has the capacity to arose attraction in her, mostly physical attraction. You can even sense the sexual tension in her eyes attimes, when you get it just right. Just make sure the touching feels as if it was unconscious on your part, this will have her more attracted.
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