If she pouts or sulks suddenly for no reason at all just ask her if she is okay. The most common response would be "I am ok, dont worry about it". Its best to not follow up on that. You cannot change a girl's mood by concentrating on it. If you keep asking her whats wrong, it will only instigate her to sulk more and she will get irritated with you. Why bother, is it really important for you to know why she is sulking? There could be hundred reasons, something as small as a bad hair day can make her sulk. Forget it, dont be her counsellor. If she is in a bad mood, let her be. Act as if you didnot notice and live in your world. If she has a genuine problem she will let you know even without you asking about it, and if the problem is silly she would know that you dont care for it. Most guys fall for the "bad mood" test. They get concerned and ask her whats wrong several times till she asks him to leave her alone for sometime. You dont want that happening. Remember the thumb rule "Always live in your world" dont try to enter into hers. She will love you for the space you give her. If she approaches you with a genuine problem use your ingenuity to solve it. Dont ever ask her to get out of her bad moods, she has the right to be the way she is. Girls have mood swings a lot more than guys. Its ok, they have the hormonal fluctuations to deal with. Its got nothing to do with you, so relax. Last thing she wants when she is in a bad mood is for you to get overly concerned. Your job is to be the source of strength and coolness. Stick to it.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
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