Her immediate reactions never matters. Girls are always undecided and need time to think things out. After you propose love, it would be rare for a girl to throw her arms around you and say that she loves you too.
Most often than not, she would give you a stunned look. Don't get nervous; Just maintain your silence while looking into her eyes. This posture indicates dominance on your part. The last thing you want to do is act servile while asking her to be your girlfriend.
All the below reactions are ok,
She might walk away without saying a word or might say that she wants to think about it. Just let her go, she will come back to you sooner or later with the answer.
She might slap you on the face (ouch) and walk away. Don't say anything, and definitely don't slap her back. Stand your ground till she leaves, she will come back to you later.
She might just tell you - I never thought about you this way, can we just be friends. Your reply should be - No, I can't be just friends with you because I am in love with you. Don't defend yourself, just be direct and decisive in your approach.
The bad reactions are
She laughs at you, the high pitch incredulous laugh. This would indicate she never looked at you as a boyfriend material or that she already has a boyfriend. Quite truly, there is no place for laugher in the serious business of proposing love.
She tells you she already has a boyfriend. It may or may not be true, but it would definitely indicate that she is not interested in you.
You have done your part now just wait up
Till she gives you a definite answer, never call her up or initiate communication with her. Let her come back to you. If she cares for you she definitely will.
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