The Passing Touch

During the initial part of the flirting process, even as soon as the second time you meet up, you can start with the process of touching very subtlely. The passing touch references to touching her almost imperceptibly, a touch which lasts only for a second. She will feel it, either consciously or unconsciously, so dont worry it will have its effect. The best areas to touch initially would be her hands and shoulders. Girls take a lot of care to ensure that their hands look good, have you noticed? There is a lot of pain endured in waxing their hands and arms to keep it looking sexy. Initially you should touch her without conscious intention, you need to act as if you didnot touch her consciously. For example, when you are standing and talking with her just touch her upper arm slightly as if you are trying to look beyond her on the floor. When she looks back just say something like "i think i saw a rat pass by or something", that will have her squeeling and coming close to you. I am sure you can come up with a lot of excuse to touch her, every guy's mind is great at this. Just ensure that the touch does not last for more than a second. Touching her skin is more effective than touching her clothes of course.